SEVEN
DAYS OF HOT SEX
Kick-start your sex life with this
week long passion plan
It's time to give your sex life a
boost. This week-long plan will help you and your
partner refresh your sensual selves and discover new
ways to satisfy each other sexually. So forget the
spring-cleaning, draw the curtains, get back to bed and
let your passions take you to a wonderful climax.
Day one tantalizing tactics
Start subtly. Leave a message on his voicemail, send him
an email, text message him passionately or leave a note
on the fridge. Tell him you love him, and go one better
and tantalize him with what you're going
to do to him later. Then ring him and make him squirm
with your descriptions of just how good it's going to
be. Listen while he moans on the other end of the phone
or tries to stifle his gasps because his boss is in
the room.
When you finally see him, do exactly
what you promised and more.
Day two food fantasies
Firstly, buy delicious goodies as if you're going on a
picnic. Get food that can be eaten with your fingers,
such as chicken legs, asparagus, strawberries and cream,
exotic fruits, treats from the deli and a tub of
chocolate ice cream. When you get together, feed each
other mouthful by mouthful. If it gets too sticky and
gooey, do it in the bath which is, after all, the only
way to eat a mango without the juice running everywhere.
You may want to experiment with dribbling champagne and
oozing cream in interesting places then licking them
off.
This can be gentle and loving or racy
and raunchy just go with the flow.
Day three sensual massage
Start the day sensually by taking a bath together.
After the bath, when youre warm and relaxed, lay a
thick towel on the floor or bed, turn on the soft
music and reach for the massage oil. Massage is one of
the greatest preludes to great sex. Keep the movements
balanced. Work on one side of your mans body and then
the other side, in the same way for about the same
length of time. Vary strokes: go for the ones he
particularly likes, moving from a soft to firm touch.
Then swap over and let him do the same to you.
It's up to you whether you keep the
massage strictly sensuous and romantic or let yourself
drift off into another kind of intimate massage.
Day four leisurely love-in
Remember John and Yoko? Today you're going to have a
love-in and spend hours and hours in bed. Switch off
the alarm and don't get up. If you can't dedicate a
whole day, tumble straight into bed once you get home
from work.
Gather everything you need by the
bedside drinks, snacks, chocolate croissants, even a
bottle of champagne then simply settle down.
The possibilities are endless with a
day in bed. Make love, eat, nap, cuddle, chat, swap
fantasies, have oral sex, make love again. By removing
the pressure to get up and get going, you can really
take the time to enjoy yourselves.
Day five erotic viewing
Tonight you're going to stay in and watch TV. Not any
old TV, but an erotic video. Sexy videos aren't just
for the boys. You can watch one specifically aimed for
couples.
Snuggle up and press play. Make sure
there are no disturbances, so that when the video hits
the parts that other videos don't reach, you can press
the pause button and carry on where the actors have
left off.
Day six demand pleasure
It's time to take it in turns. Today you're going to
give each other 30 minutes of pure pleasure.
First, set the kitchen timer or
alarm. After that, whoever is the 'doer' must do
anything the 'doee' asks for kisses, oral sex,
gazing into eyes, sensual massage and touching,
licking or full on sex. The only rules are that the
'doee' mustn't ask for anything they know the 'doer'
objects to. Apart from that, the 'doee' gets to
choose anything they want.
When the time's up, change over.
By the end of the hour, if you're not exhausted,
have another round. Be spontaneous and go with the
mood this task has taken you into.
Day seven bedside treats
Look to the East and copy the ancient Japanese, who
kept a pillow book on the bedside to inspire
different sex acts. For this final day of your sexy
week, pick your favorite pillow book I like Anne
Hooper's
Great Sex Guide and choose ten of the ideas that
turn you on.
Write the suggestions on ten bits
of paper and take it in turns to pick them out of a
hat. Then try each idea.
Aim to postpone his final orgasm
if he's able to have more than one. When he's about
to come, back off and switch to another activity.
But when you're both ready to climax, finish off
with your favorite position, the one you both love,
that always does it for you. This should bring your
week to a fantastic and passionate climax.
